Assalamualaikum
Atlast,I've got time to update with the e-day. Well. It was very tiring and long day for me as I've to clean up and settles it by myself. Left only me and the youngest at home. My mom and neighbors been busy cooking and all for the guests later For those who knows would understand my situation as at first it's just a risik. Suddenly about 3-2 days before, his mom and uncle called my parents to change it to engagement.
Well, can you guess?? I'm having mental breakdown that time. Quickly I send a messages to him saying that his side asking for an engagement not risik. He was so shocked as he currently at that time at platform in the middle of the sea in Labuan.We both speechless. And the most shocking news that even hard for me to accept is my dad agreed. I mean alhamdulillah, everything been in ease more than I expected it to be. :)
Well, then started the hectic days before Saturdays. Finding the outfit, hantaran, food, bouquet. I made all the hantaran especially the cakes and cookies. Because seriously got no time to buy things. Just gave things I can made and decorate the hantaran by myself. It do saves money people but the tiredness can't be compare off.
His side would come at 3 p.m. But, at 1.30 p.m I'm still in the middle of decorating the hantaran and touched here and there to make sure things perfect as what I want. Make-up??yeah. I make-up myself. That's so tiring. Indeed. Having to do most things myself was enjoying. I think enough chatting and reading wouldn't you think so??here's some pictures.
The Hantaran
Tepak Sirih
Cookies I made.
Cholocate gift from neighbors
This one also from neighbors
And this one too.
Tembikai agar-agar from my aunt.
Pandan layer cake which I baked.
Carrot cake I baked.
Th fruits.
Ring. By his mak ngah. Risik ring
This one is his mom. My future mother in-law. Insha Allah.
Because I'm trembling so much. lame and ashamed. :').
Overall it was definite a memory that I shall never forget. A new journey for me and him. And hoping for your prayers also till jannah. Insha Allah. People always said this period is a crucial one before getting married. Praying that both of us can go through this together with help from Allah and hoping for your prayers also for us. Insha Allah. amin. Till then. May Allah bless us all with barakah and guidance, prevent us from mazmumah things. Amin. XOXO.
Waalaikumussalam.
